Ever since I started dating Mr. Coleman the military related holidays like today mean so much more to me. As the granddaughter of a soldier who was wounded twice in WWII, the wife of a soldier who survived Operation Iraqi Freedom virtually unscathed, and the friend and family member of many others I am so thankful that I get to celebrate my loved ones on Veterans Day instead of Memorial Day.
Memorial Day is a day to remember those who died in the many wars and battles that help to keep our country free. On days like today I can't help but think of men and women like Specialist John Winterbottom. John was a man who served in Iraq next to Mr. Coleman except John never made it back home. On May 23, 2007 Specialist John Winterbottom was killed by an Iraqi bomb while serving his country. I'm sure today means something completly different to the Winterbottom family.
I love my husband with all of my heart and I know that he very easily could have ended up like his friend John. There is no rhyme or reason to war and the men and women who die aren't really any different than the ones who come home. Call it lucky, call it fate, call it God's plan; whatever it is war is ugly and the men and women who serve do so regardless of the risks.
I had something different to blog about today and the weight of this day and what it means just hit me and I had to write about it. I am thankful everyday for the men and women who have fought and will fight for our country, especially those who won't make it home. They fight because they believe in America, not because they believe in whatever war we are currently fighting. Whether it be Vietnam or Operation Enduring Freedom in Afghanistan the men and women of our armed forces may or may not agree with why we are at war but the fact still remains that they are there fighting for each and every one of us and some of them will never come home.
I am thankful that I live in America and I will always support our armed forces because they deserve to be appreciated for the things they do. Things that people like me will never quite understand. I think it was General Patton that said "let me not mourn the men who have died fighting but rather let me glad that such heroes have lived."
Thank you to all of the American heroes.